Everybody moves at their own pace when it comes to relationships. Sometimes, you fall into step with someone easily. Other times, it’s too fast or too slow. Are you waltzing while they’re doing the tango? Or the foxtrot?
In the case of this reader, here, I do have to agree that if you can’t tell after 5 months whether you love someone, the answer is probably no.
Looks like they had spent enough time together to come to the relationship’s conclusion.
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Rebecca Meyer
I agree that five months should be long enough to figure out if you love someone. That’s a bad sign if the person says he or she “doesn’t think we’ve spent enough time together.”